It came to me as Little One Number Two, brow furrowed in concern,
used tiny fingers to pinch and prod the wrinkles that have set up residence on
my face. Although the last person I would expect to point out my faults, she
was certainly not the first to suggest that I was clearly in need of
repair.
But it got me thinking. About Little fingers and Little jobs.
The whole child labour thing. And while nobody’s suggesting we farm out children to thread
Indonesian looms or strip copper wires from old computers in China, there are
clearly acceptable developmental tasks that are suited to tiny fingers.
For example, Little One Number One has recently shown a
proclivity to weeding the garden. After
a few failed attempts to distinguish between errant sunflower sprouts and a row
of healthy carrots, he set to the task with gusto, clearly displaying both
predisposition and skill. Granted, an attention span of 90 seconds works
against him but still… While Number One had his nose to the grindstone, Number Two looked on in mockery with eyes that said Fool.
Another toddler-ready task that has enough educational merit
to make it into the Montessori curriculum is laundry sorting. A simple guideline of white, dark, and coloured (grey is however a grey area) resulted in an astounding 85% accuracy rate in
Little One Number One (a success rate my husband of 40 years can only aspire
to). With an outburst of babble
referencing child labour laws, Little One Number Two deigned to participate but
had no qualms about joining in the reward activity of rolling and jumping in
the piles of sorted clothing.
The same sharp eyed observational skills that make children
aware of tiny ants underfoot can be capitalized on here. Little One Number Two is a scanner. The first to sense the presence of birds and squirrels in trees, she cocks her head and holds her finger up to request
the silence required to identify the call of her favourite birdees. At a recent
funeral, having spotted a crow through a window, she impressed the mourners by
flying across the room full-tilt waving her arms and shouting Caw! Caw! With
training she could probably scan military photos and security tapes for the
presence of baddies.
Having said that, it was Little One Number One’s sharp eyes that
determined that Number Two had somehow blown a shoe on our travels through the
river trails and was travelling light. Fortunately, retracing our steps, the
shoe was discovered by Buster the Dog some meters away. (Clearly, this is not the best Baba
Advertising but I am past fear of confession.)
While established theory states that gross motor skills precede development of fine motor skills, my recent experience refutes this hypothesis. For
example, picking up tiny peas to feed to slathering dogs gathered like
alligators below the high chair, is clearly not a challenge for a precocious
toddler. However, using a whisk to mix banana
oatmeal chocolate chip cookie dough turns out to be prohibitive, as evidenced by
the predictable (and yet still attempted) outcome of batter-coated toddlers, dogs, cats, and
kitchen floor. I was again reminded that for children, actually baking cookie
batter is superfluous. Fortunately, Buster the Dog, ever ready to spring into
action, led the clean-up detail while the guilty parties were hosed down.
To say nothing of the technological capacity of little fingers. When my own chubby stumps bludgeon and stab
at those tiny ‘play’ arrows on Elmo’s World youtubes (a simpering take-off on
the greatness that was Sesame Street) a tiny index finger will patiently brush
mine aside and calmly navigate for me. While survival in generations past required
strength and gross motor skills, control over the electronic world is by
buttons.
Good observational skills and a tiny index finger could rule the world.
Good observational skills and a tiny index finger could rule the world.